If you have ever been to couples therapy it's really, really challenging.
What I found is, really, you always have to begin by nailing what is true about you, because something that works very well for someone else might not work for you at all.
Knowing what you admire in others is a wonderful mirror into your deepest, as yet unborn, self.
Outer order contributes to inner calm.
Habits are the invisible architecture of everyday life.
Your unhappiness doesn't help anyone else - and in fact, as I mentioned in another answer, happy people are more altruistically inclined. So happiness is not a selfish goal.
It's easy to be heavy; hard to be light.
Now, I'm an atheist. I really don't believe for a moment that our moral sense comes from a god.
I don't think you get anything good if you just accept everything the way it rolls out. You have to fight for what you believe in.
The kind who live for music and are constantly seeking it out, anywhere they can. Who can't imagine a life without it. They're enlightened.
To know that we know what we know, and to know that we do not know what we do not know, that is true knowledge.