You don't know how people are going to respond. But I would add to that, that getting your … - Melissa Febos

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Melissa Febos

You don't know how people are going to respond. But I would add to that, that getting your heart broken is not the worst thing and it's actually quite unavoidable. I think in some ways I had to break my father's heart and then face that in order to have a real relationship with him.

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