It has never been recommended to confuse "loving" with "seeking to please". . . . . . Salome pleased Herod's guests; I can hardly believe she was burning with love for them. As for poor John the Baptist. . . . . . she certainly did not envelop him in her love.
Always remember, the person we’re really working for is the person who’s restoring the piece a hundred years from now. He’s the one we want to impress.