There seemed to be three choices: to give up trying to love anyone, to stop being selfish, or … - Lydia Davis

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Guns, double-crosses, hitmen. . . I can get used to a lot of things, but I'm never going to get used to sleeping where apocalypse bugs mate,” Wednesday said, walking into the room looking around. She dropped her Birkin on the floor and heard something scuttling behind the cheap plastic wood print veneer covered dresser. She turned to face Alvin, her head cocked to the side. “Seriously. I'm not saying five-star. . . I'm saying go on Expedia and find a place that actually has stars. . . any stars.

Lydia Davis

There seemed to be three choices: to give up trying to love anyone, to stop being selfish, or to learn to love a person while continuing to be selfish.

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