So maybe that's what the difference is, is that when you intend to be happy, then you figure out ways to sustain your happiness or your ability to feel moments of joy in your life.
I hope readers will do what I do when I read a novel I like: talk in ways that will illuminate their own lives.
If you are not trying new ways every single day in your company, you will not get to your optimal point.
As I set out to begin photographing Shanghai, I encountered the insideroutsider phenomena in the most personal of ways. You would walk into an old neighborhood in the center of city, and people would begin to point at you. People would begin to talk about you, spreading the word about the outsider who has wandered into their midst, look at him, he's got a camera, what's he doing, is this allowed, is this OK, how should be respond to him.
In many ways when Jerry Ford pardoned Nixon, in a certain way, he did speak for the country.
In liberal logic, if life is unfair then the answer is to turn more tax money over to politicians, to spend in ways that will increase their chances of getting reelected.