You are not free until your past has no effect on your future
Some people who were central to former success aren't the right people for your future success.
And if you were always spending your time getting over your past, how were you supposed to get on with your future?
If your character is not strengthening, your future is weakening.
It's not dependency that creates your future. It's independence that creates your better future.
The power to affect your future lies within your own hands.