Empathy is at the core of family stability and love. I've never had a couple come to me and say, I want a divorce; my partner understands me.
If you get a chance to go outside of the country, you start examining where you're from and some of the thought processes. Like when I finally got away from the east coast for a while, and I came back there was just this underlying anger that I never noticed before, because I was born there and just dropped right into it.