I despise my own nation most. Because I know it best. Because I still love it, suffering from Hope. For me, that's patrotism.
When I was a child I asked my mother what homosexuality was about and she said - and this was 100 years ago in Germany and she was very open-minded - 'It's like hair color. It's nothing. Some people are blond and some people have dark hair. It's not a subject. ' This was a very healthy attitude.