I try to stay fit and eat healthily, but I am not anxious to starve myself and become unnaturally thin. I don't find that look attractive on women and I don't want to become part of that trend. It's unhealthy and it puts too much pressure on women in general who are being fed this image of the ideal, which it is not.
Not forgiving someone hurts you worse than it hurts him. . . even if he doesn't deserve to be forgiven. . . Not forgiving someone is like not pulling a thorn out of your foot just because you weren't the one who put it there.