I have a certain taste, and I might be like, 'I like this,' when other people are like, 'I can't wear that. ' And in basketball, I might be able to do things other guys might not.
My go-to default is to try to be nice, which I feel does less harm in the long run than trying to be, say, assertive. If I am nice and maybe too passive, I find that easier to live with.