Physical courage is a great test.
It’s hard to feel hurt or frightened when you’re flooded with pity.
Indignation and determination are much more constructive emotions than shame and embarrassment. And feminism was this engine that turned one into the other.
I didn't stop hating my body because my body changed; I stopped hating my body because my mind changed. I realized that the beauty standards I'd grown up striving and failing to meet were artificial and arbitrary, and I could choose to simply say "no" and define my own value.
Just live! Live now! Don't wait, and don't let anyone tell you that you're a work in progress.
On a practical level, I'm uncomfortable at comedy clubs because there are so many shitty dude comics who have made my life miserable. If I go to a comedy club and I look around, I don't know which of the dudes lining the wall told me that I was too fat to get raped. It makes me nauseous. But that was a couple years ago, and meanwhile, comedy has changed a lot.
Abortion. Feminism. Online harassment. Social justice. Women's "no"s are constantly doubted and eroded in our culture. Saying "no" and sticking to it - and, especially, doing that where other women can see it - is a political statement.
[On homosexuality:] I'm more inclined [now] to say live and let live.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 96% how I react to it.
So curses all Eve's daughters of what complexion soever.
The things I fear may all be imaginary, so what I fear most is my imagination.