Until we learn to love others as ourselves, it's difficult to blame broken people who desperately try to affirm themselves when no one else will.
To me, music shouldn't be ego-driven. When you go out on stage and play songs, it is. But when you're sitting in a room, writing songs, it's a completely different process. It's a completely different place. It's a creative place, a musical place. It has nothing to do with who likes what.