But the self-controlled man, moving among objects, with his senses under restraint, and free from both attraction and repulsion, attains peace.
Being a mother is the best thing that ever happened to me. Before you have your first baby you are a girl and then you become a mother. There is no transition into being a woman; you literally become a mum and being a mum means you always love someone else more than yourself and it is an unexplainable situation.