The verb that's been enforced on girls is to please. Girls are trained to please. . . I want us all to change the verb. I want the verb to be educate, or activate, or engage, or confront, or defy, or create.
Psychoanalysis comes down to the process itself - the self, and life. I think I can say that I'm friends with the unconscious life, but I've never tried to make a painting directly from a dream.