Here's my advice to you: don't marry until you can tell yourself that you've done all you could, and until you've stopped loving the women you've chosen, until you see her clearly, otherwise you'll be cruelly and irremediably mistaken. Marry when you're old and good for nothing. . . Otherwise all that's good and lofty in you will be lost.
We often feel sad in the presence of music without words; and often more than that in the presence of music without music.