My mom is a great cook, and family dinners were a must growing up, even if that meant eating at 10 p. m. when my dad got home from the hospital. It's where we did our family bonding.
I try not to think in terms of what poems or poets should do. Most of us appreciate a wide diversity in music, in cooking, in movies, but in our own medium, poetry, we often fail to make allowances for tastes and projects other than our own.