we came to realize that a civilization which rode roughshod over the way of life of other peoples was incorporating evil in its own way of life.
Traditional religions practices are important. They allow us to share with others the communal experience of adoration and prayer,but we must never forget spiritual experience is above all a practical experience of love,and with love,there are no rules some may try to control their emotions and develop strategies for their behavior,others may turn to reading books of advice from "experts" on relationships but this is all folly. The heart decides and what it decides is all that really matters.