To take the choice of another. . . to forget their concrete reality, to abstract them, to forget that you are a node in a matrix, that actions have consequences. We must not take the choice of another being. What is community but a means to. . . for all we individuals to have. . . our choices.
'Curio vult advisari,' as the lawyers say; which means, 'Let us have another glass, and then we can think about it. '