If you live in a material universe where acquiring things is very important to you, then family is an absolute deterrent to maintaining that sort of a world, because family involves values like affection, and sympathy, and passion, and types of pleasure that lead nowhere in a material sense.
There are some things which cannot be learned quickly, and time, which is all we have, must be paid heavily for their acquiring.
At one point, I thought life was about acquiring things. But as a I get older, life is totally about losing everything.
Success isn't about acquiring things, it's about discovering your life purpose and following the call