There is a certain seductiveness about dead things. You can ill treat, alter and recolour what's dead. It won’t complain.
It seems when the madness sets in the mix of wealth and seductiveness, it's never the first generation that acquired the wealth; they had to be quite savvy. That savvy-ness probably meant you were some sort of alpha person. That alpha stuff in the later generations, you still have the intelligence, but it tends to manifest itself in bipolar disorders and inestimable amounts of depression.
Extreme seductiveness is at the boundary of horror
The attraction of dating is that you don't take yes for granted - - you're fully engaged, there's seductiveness, tension.