Preaching is compelling to young secular adults. . . - not if preachers use video clips from their favorite movies and dress informally and sound sophisticated, - but if the preachers understand their hearts and culture so well that listeners feel the force of the sermon's reasoning, even if in the end they don't agree with it.
Life can change your directions, even when you ain't planned it. All you can do is handle it, worst thing you can do is panic.